1.22.2016

Georgia HOBY Newsletter:
Fifty-Second Edition, January 22, 2016

Featured Volunteer: Hunter Quintal (First Seminar NW '15)

Let me preface this by saying that I was not an ambassador. Unlike many of you, I was not one of the select few from Georgia to be nominated. However, like many of you, I was completely unaware of what HOBY stood for before I became a part of it.

My name is Hunter Quintal and my introduction to and involvement in HOBY is somewhat non-traditional. My best friend from high school is a HOBY alumna and always spoke highly of the program. She would tell me of how her experiences as an ambassador shaped her understanding of her self awareness and self confidence, and how her interactions with other high-achieving students acted as encouragement for her to continue giving her all to her schoolwork and to her community.

When I applied to be a junior facilitator last winter, it was this knowledge that I took with me. Oh yeah, and I also knew was that I would run after parents’ cars, shrieking and hollering. That’s about it. I felt like I knew what I was in for. I felt like the weekend would end too quickly and that I wouldn’t really gain anything in such a short period of time. Boy was I was wrong!

The weekend became endless in the lessons and relationships that I continuously was a part of. I watched before my eyes as the students that I had grown close to became more outgoing, more spirited, more self-assured, more creative, and more visibly inquisitive. These shy students grew into themselves, finding their own voice and all contributing differently to group and individual action and reflection. I learned as they did, and found that I was diversifying my own skills of communication and leadership as I interacted with them. We all became thoughtful community leaders as we confronted issues brought up in the seminar.

That weekend last summer made me evaluate my worldview, and reassess my effectiveness as a member of the various organizations and groups that I call home. The staff and ambassadors were so welcoming and supportive, and I easily fit into that community of humble, gracious, and confident leaders. HOBY inspired me. HOBY reinvented me. I hope to continue serving HOBY and working towards the goals that HOBY stands for. By the way, everyone who has been impacted by HOBY interprets those goals differently. I hope to hear what HOBY means to you. 



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    1.14.2016

    Georgia HOBY Newsletter:
    Fifty-First Edition, January 14, 2016

    Featured Alumnus: Abraham Johnson '13

    I feel like there are three kinds of HOBY stories
    1. Some people invest during the weekend, it changes their lives for the better, and they are satisfied with just being an alum
    2. Some people don’t invest themselves during the weekend, they continue their life the same way as before, and they don’t get the value of HOBY
    3. Some people go to HOBY, it radically changes their lives for the better, and they find any way to get back to the seminar for years to come because it’s truly outstanding!
    I’m a very proud member of the third group. This summer will mark my fourth time at the weekend and I could not be more excited. HOBY means so many things to so many different people, and it’s such a deeply personal experience that I find it a little hard to summarize. The biggest advice I can give to my fellow HOBY alumni is this: find how you can use the skills at HOBY in a way that serve both your community, while also serving yourself. 

    Before I went to HOBY, I had always wanted to try theatre. Because of nerves and not really having any theatre friends, I had never really gotten up the courage to go out for it. Throughout the seminar weekend, we got these little opportunities to watch and participate in performances: from bigger things like the Talent Show, to smaller opportunities like sizzling and singing in front of fellow ambassadors. After meeting ambassadors who were incredibly talented and accomplished in their own school-theatre-bubbles, I left the weekend with a new perspective. Since then, I spent the next three years pursuing theatre-- but not in the self-fulfilling way that some theatre people pursue. Theatre has absolutely been a rewarding experience for me, but the thing that really stuck with me, relating to HOBY, is the opportunity to apply the seminar’s skills to just about any passion that the ambassadors have. Community-building doesn’t have to look like can-drives and car washes for charity. In theatre, I apply HOBY’s leadership skills whenever directing a show, taking direction, or working behind the scenes. The social justice aspect of HOBY has been applied incredibly when thinking about inherent racism and exclusion in the theatre community.

    This is what I’m trying to say: whether you’re in theatre, or sports, or other academic focuses, find a way to combine HOBY’s lessons with your own passions. This is the most realistic way to keep that HOBY high going past the seminar. In the words of Howard Thurman, “Don't ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive, and go do that, because what the world needs is people who have come alive.”



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      1.08.2016

      Georgia HOBY Newsletter:
      Fiftieth Edition, January 8, 2016

      Featured Alumna: Megan Franken '08


      If someone had told me in June of 2008, I would be transformed from the timid sophomore who was buried in her books to an empowered, outspoken junior after just three days, I would have honestly not believed them. From my first seminar as an ambassador 8 years ago to every seminar since that I have been blessed to volunteer at, I am empowered in a different way to redefine my leadership roles by the interactions with not only my mentors and friends I have met through HOBY, but by the new group of ambassadors that are embarking on their first HOBY experience. HOBY has given me way more than leadership skills though; I have gained an irreplaceable HOBY family. My HOBY family grows with each seminar as I gain connections with the ambassadors in my group or Junior Staff assisting with the operational side of HOBY. I am also able to nurture my existing relationships with the staff that though I sometimes am only able to see once or twice a year at HOBY events, even though I speak to them daily because of the connection we have. Georgia HOBY has transformed and continues to transform me into a leader who grows, adapts, and evolves and I am eternally grateful for this program as well as every individual that plays a part in each seminar.

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        12.28.2015

        Georgia HOBY Newsletter:
        Forty-Ninth Edition, December 28, 2015

        Featured Alumnus: Cullen MacDonald '13

        Hello, Georgia HOBY family!

        I hope that your holiday season has been warm, peaceful, and refreshing.The end of 2015 is approaching, but a new beginning in 2016 approaches accordingly. That being said, it is worth spending a portion of 2015’s final moments to build a purposeful start for 2016. As members of HOBY, we owe, to ourselves, the HOBY family, and the world we are trying to serve, a constructive reflection on the previous year. I am not calling for an ill-fated New Year's resolution, but instead for a harvest of the year’s experiences. In doing so, I hope that we can all gain a renewed sense of direction and wisdom from the things we did, and yes, failed to do.

        Perhaps the best place to start reflection is with our memories of friends and family, of laughter and perhaps sadness too. These are the memories which can sustain us for a lifetime. They are the substance of a fulfilling life, and provide strength to face the more difficult times in life. Writing these memories down in a journal is a sensible way to ensure they are not lost to time, and their use is not short-lived. For those of you who attended either of the seminars this past summer, I am sure there are some moments worth saving for later!

        With fond memories collected, now is the time to ask questions, and answer with unwavering honesty. Did I give my very best to myself and others?  Did I serve others selflessly, with only their well-being in mind? Did I let fear get in the way of new experiences? Did I judge others by anything except their character and actions? Were there times I compromised my values? These are among the many questions I will be answering, and they are undoubtedly heavy questions. I know I won’t like all of the answers to those questions, but I also know it is important to face the truth of how well I did or did not live up to my intentions. Doing so will lead to a more complete picture, successes and failures included, to contrast and adjust my purpose and direction. We know that failures are just as useful as successes, so we don’t want to filter them out because of pride. The only failures in life are the ones we leave alone to fester.

        With a fresh slate at our hands, we can seal 2015’s happenings into a year gone by. We can forgive ourselves and others for the times we fell short of our expectations, though we should try not to forget the lessons learned which are vital to the wisdom and purpose guiding future actions.

        As HOBY leaders, we have a responsibility to ensure that our tools are sharp and in place for successful leadership. Focused reflection is a practical way of doing so. I hope 2015 has been an outstanding year, but not the best year to come. I am looking forward to all of the wonderful things Georgia HOBY will accomplish in 2016!

        With love,

        Cullen D. MacDonald

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          12.17.2015

          Georgia HOBY Newsletter:
          Forty-Eighth Edition, December 17, 2015

          Featured Alumna: Haley Hubbard '14

          Toward the end of my sophomore year, my counselor pulled me out of math class to explain that I had been picked to go to “HOBY.” With a confused smile and no physical description of HOBY that I could grasp, I left her office a few minutes later. For months all I knew of HOBY was the simple description: it’s a leadership seminar for rising juniors, and it’s GREAT. I didn’t realize how much HOBY could change my life until I stepped out of my mom’s car at Berry College and one of my soon-to-be facilitators, Courtney, took my bags. After a weekend of developing as a team and district (Go Gold!), I didn’t want to go home; something special had happened through the loud cheers and team activities. As a group we grew closer than I imagined possible. I felt closer to my teammates than I did to some friends I had back at home. That is just the power of HOBY; it can bring together people from every walk of life and create lifelong friendships. Even though it is a leadership seminar, HOBY taught me far more than how to embrace my inner peacock. HOBY taught me how to completely and compassionately love people as they are. HOBY taught me that it’s okay to be vulnerable and tell people when I don’t have the answers. HOBY taught me that ANYTHING can happen within the span of three days. Coming back as a Junior Staff member in 2015 at the SouthEast seminar was a completely different, equally impactful, experience. Watching ambassadors learn and grow during the days was MORE fun than growing myself. HOBY has impacted me so greatly that it is almost impossible to put it into words. It’s one of those “you had to be there” kind of moments that I will continue to share and relive forever, and I am forever grateful.

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            12.09.2015

            Georgia HOBY Newsletter:
            Forty-Seventh Edition, December 9, 2015

            Featured Alumnus: Joe Farkus '11

            Throughout my childhood, my world was very small. I spent every Sunday in a Southern Pentecostal church, every night at the dinner table with loving (yet emotionally unavailable) parents, and every school day doing my very best to put on a good face and seek my peers’ approval. I possessed no concept of self-worth and avoided introspection like the plague. I knew I was gay. I knew friends I really cared about and respected had no idea and would likely have a hard time accepting the fact. I could blame it on my religious upbringing, societal pressures, or the nature of my family…but staying in the closet was a result of my cowardice. I didn’t want to confront whatever complications would arise from coming out. I didn’t want to be gay. I didn’t want it to be a distraction from what I wanted to accomplish in life. So I kept friends at a distance and continued on my way. Then, HOBY came along. Unlike many of HOBY peers, no essay or application process was required for me to be selected for the program. By simply having been re-elected Class President, I was automatically selected by my school - and my god, am I grateful for that. GAHOBY 2011 was a significant experience right in the middle of a difficult time in my life - the sense of community, encouragement, and the opportunity to be challenged in ways I hadn’t before…it all really had an unmeasurable impact on my development. Meeting other young people who were, not just enduring, but excelling in the midst of struggles and challenges much greater than my own put a lot of things into perspective. The November following HOBY, my family and I relocated to Texas. The following November, I was outed to my father. A year and a half later, I started dating my best friend and current partner. As of January 2016, I will be - not only back in school and on my way to a law degree - but also a member of the Democratic Party staff here in Dallas. Recently, I just registered to run for the Texas House of Representative 108th District! HOBY equipped me with the courage to pursue my own happiness; to realize that being an individual and challenging stereotypes is worth all the risk involved.

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              12.01.2015

              Georgia HOBY Newsletter:
              Forty-Sixth Edition, December 1, 2015

              Featured Alumna: Tatiana Taylor '09


                         If I could explain HOBY in one word, it would be… Wait, I can’t explain HOBY in one word. In 2009, I was chosen to attend a leadership seminar by the name of HOBY. “What’s HOBY?” I asked my sophomore guidance counselor. “It’s the Hugh O’Brian Youth Leadership Conference.” She answered. Clearly she didn’t know much about the program either. “It’s for rising juniors who have exhibited strong leadership skills.” Okay, cool. That’s all I really needed to hear. Of course I’d go to this HOBY thing, it would look great on my resumé and colleges love this kind of stuff. “Okay, I’ll do it.” I told my counselor.
                         My experience that year at HOBY literally changed my life. I thought about things differently. I viewed my problems differently. I looked at people in a new light. Instead of describing HOBY in word, I’ll describe what it does. HOBY brings together people from various walks of life that have the same thing in common: They are ALL leaders. I learned that when I was an Ambassador in 2009, and I continue to see it every year that I volunteer at the seminar. The kids that come to HOBY are all different, some are shy and will only say three words all weekend, some are super outgoing and you can’t get them to be quiet all weekend, some are the textbook definition of the word leader, and then there are some who don’t really fit into any category.
                          Even today, I use the tools that HOBY provided me with. I am a better person, and a better leader because of my involvement in the program. HOBY has taught me to use my strengths to overcome obstacles, and where I am lacking, there are others that I can depend on, and it does not make me any less of a leader. Being a great leader means knowing when to ask for help. I am not afraid to come to my fellow alumni when I am down, because they are there to help me get back up. I will carry what I’ve learned at HOBY, and what I continue to learn, always. 

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